Er Kwagh u Una Na Ivese Yen ia Taver shi a Saan Ne Iyol Yô
“Aluer TER Una maa iyou ga yô, ka gbilin tsô mbamaan i la ve eren tom ye.”
1-3. Ka mbamtaver mba nyi noov man kasev ve tagher a mini? (Nenge foto u a lu sha mhii u ngeren ne la.)
NOM ugen u a er ivese i kom anyom 38 hegen, shi i saan ve iyol yô, kaa ér: “Aluer u ngu nôngon kwagh kpoghuloo shi u ngu tesen wer u soo wer ivese you i doo yô, u fatyô u zuan a iveren i Yehova.” Sha mimi yô, noov man kasev cii vea fatyô u lun ken msaanyol shi wasen ayol a ve ken ashighe a taver kpaa.
2 Nahan kpa, ashighe kpishi noov man kasev ka ve tagher a “ican ken iyol.” (1 Kor. 7:28) Sha ci u nyi? Mbamzeyol mba noov man kasev ve tagher a mi ayange ayange la tseegh kpa, vea na ivese ve ia kera taver ga. Er ve yen yô, ashighe agen ka ve na or u ve vese nan la ishimavihin shi ve kera lamen gbar gbar ga. (Yak. 3:
3 U hemban vihin cii yô, se mba ken “ayange a masejime” a ior kpishi ve we ayol a ve ikyo tseegh shi ve vende u civir Aôndo yô, man aeren ne nga a vihi ivese i ngôôr ga. (2 Tim. 3:
4. Noov man kasev vea er nan ve vea lu kangenaa shi a saan ve iyolo?
4 Nom ugen ken tar u Japan kaa ér: “Yange m va nyôr ken ican inyar kpoghuloo. Shi er m kera lu lamen vea kwase wam tsembelee ga yô, un kpa hingir un haghelaa. Heela tseegh ga, semberee ne, vihi un iyol tsung. Nahan ashighe agen, kwagh ne ka a na se hingir ayôôso.” Mbamtaver mbagenev ka mba noov man kasev vea fatyô u palegh ve ken ivese ga yô, kpa u ngu wer vea kanshio u nôngon a mi ga. Sha iwasen i Yehova yô, noov man kasev vea fatyô u lun ken bem shi ivese ve ia taver. (Ôr Pasalmi 127:1.) De se time sha akaa a ken jijingi ataan a aa wase noov man kasev vea lu kangenaa shi ivese ve ia tsa yô. Maa se nenge er dooshima una wase ve u eren akaa ne yô.
WA YEHOVA KEN IVESE YOU
5, 6. Ka nyi noov man kasev vea er ve vea lu wan Yehova ken ivese ve?
5 Kwagh u vesen u una wase noov man kasev vea lu kangenaa yô, ka u suur sha Yehova, un u yange hii kwagh u ivesegh la shi ungwan imo na. (Ôr Orpasenkwagh 4:12.) Noov man kwasev vea fatyô u wan Yehova ken ivese ve sha u dondon akaa a a we ve sha dooshima la. Bibilo ôr kwagh u ior mba Aôndo mba sha ayange a tsuaa la ér: “Ato ou kpaa aa ungwa kwaghôron ken ijime you u kaan er: Ka gbenda je ne, za nen sha u, zum u á sar ne u geman ken iyan shin ken imese la yô.” (Yes. 30:
6 Anmgbian Gerhard u a lu ken tar u Jamani yô, kaa ér: “Zum u se tagher a mbamtaver shin se lu ken ayôôso, i kera saan se iyol ken ivese yase ga yô, kwaghwan u ken Mkaanem ma Aôndo ngu a wase se u wan ishima shi den ayol a ase kwaghbo. Gba u noov man kasev vea wan ishima shi vea deen ayol a ve kwaghbo ve ivese ve ia taver ye.” Noov man kasev ka vea nôngo kpoghuloo, vea wa Aôndo ken ivese ve sha u eren akaa a ken jijingi imôngo yô, ve var a Aôndo shi ve lu kôôsôô shi i saan ve iyol kpaa.
NOOV HEMEN NEN SHA DOOSHIMA
7. Gba u noov vea hemen nena?
7 Gbenda u nom nan hemen la ua fatyô u wasen kpishi, sha er ivese i nan ia taver shi msaanyol una lu ker yô. Bibilo kaa ér: “Ityough ki hanma nomsoor yô, ka Kristu, man ityough ki kwase yô, gema ka nom.” (1 Kor. 11:3) Kwagh u i lu ôron ve i va ter mkaanem mara la tese noov gbenda u i doo u vea hemen yô. Gba u vea hemen sha gbenda u Kristu kpa a hemen la. Yesu yange nyoon ishima a ior shin eren tswam a ve ga, kpa hanma shighe yô, a tesen ve dooshima shi a eren a ve kundu kundu shi norom ikyaa ga, shi lu ishima legh legh, shi keghen ityough kpaa ga.
8. Nom una er nan ve kwase na una soo un shi una naan un iciviri?
1 Pet. 3:7) Gba u noov vea ôron kwagh a kasev vev sha icivir shi vea zungwen ve mhôônom, ken igbar man ken iuv cii. (Anz. 31:28) Aluer nom ngu hemen kwase na sha dooshima nahan yô, kwase na a soo un shi una naan un icivir, shi Aôndo una ver ivese ve doo doo kpaa.
8 Gba u noov vea zer zan kasev vev iyol ér ve naan ve icivir ga, er Kristu nahan. Kpa vea ‘luun a kasev vev imôngo sha kwaghfan shi ve waan ve ikyo er kasev vev ve hembe yinan agee yô.’ (KASEV UNGWAN NEN IMO I NOOV ENEV SHI HIDEN NEN A IYOL IJIME
9. Kwase nana tese ér nan ongo imo i nom u nan shi nan hidi a iyol ijime nena?
9 Aluer se mba a dooshima u tangen iyol ga la sha Yehova yô, kwagh ne una wase se u hiden a ayol a ase ijime er uwegh nagh ku ageegh ku lu sha a vese yô. (1 Pet. 5:6) Gbenda u injaa u kwase u ungwan imo i nom ka nan tese icivir sha hemen u Yehova yô, ka u eren kwagh ken ijoughave vea nom u nan shi suen ivese i nan. Bibilo kaa ér: “Ne kasev, ungwan nen imo i noov enev er i doo ken Ter yô.” (Kol. 3:18) Ka mimi, a lu hanma kwagh u nom a tsough u eren cii una doo kwase na ga. Nahan kpa, aluer kwagh u nan tsough la per atindi a Aôndo ga yô, kwase u ungwan nom ka nan kegh iyol u lumun kwagh shon.
10. Gba hange hange u kasev vea ungwan imo i noov vev sha ci u nyi?
10 Kwase nan ngu a ian i civirigh i lun “ijende” i nom u nan. (Mal. 2:14) Shighe u nom man kwase ve lu tsuan akaa hen tsombor yô, kwase nana pase mhen man mnenge u nan sha icivir, kpa nana zan hemen u ungwan imo i nom u nan her. Nom u lun a kwaghfan ka nan kegh ato a kwagh u kwase u nan a lu ôron la zulee. (Anz. 31:
DEEN NEN AYOL A EN KWAGHBO
11. Gba hange hange u noov man kasev vea deen ayol a ve kwaghbo sha ci u nyi?
11 Kwagh u vesen u ngu a wase ivese i tsa yô, ka u den orgen a kwaghbo. Noov man kasev ka vea ‘waan ishima a ayol a ve, shi vea deen ayol a en kwaghbo’ yô, kwagh ne a na ivese ve i taver. (Kol. 3:13) Nahan kpa, aluer nom shin kwase nan ngu umbur akaa a yange or u nan vese la nan er doo nan ga, shi nan ngu zeren teren a yô, kwagh ne una vihi ivese ve. Er iyou ka ia pav ikwe ve i kera taver ga nahan, ishimavihin man u wan kwagh ken ishima la ngu a na yô, i seer taver nom man kwase u den ayol a ve kwaghbo shi eren kwagh ken mzough. Nahan kpa, nom man kwase ka vea deen ayol a ve kwaghbo, er Yehova a den ve nahan yô, kwagh ne a taver ivese ve.
12. Dooshima “cirin asorabo kpishi” nena?
12 Dooshima u mimi “koson kwagh u bo ken ishima ga.” Jighilii yô, “dooshima cirin asorabo kpishi.” (1 Kor. 13:
13. Se er nan ve se palegh ieren i den mbagenev kwaghbo ga laa?
13 Anmgbian u kwase ugen, u i yer un ér Annette la kaa ér: “Aluer nom man kwase mba soon u den ayol a ve kwaghbo ga yô, vea hingir u wan kwagh ishima shi nan ayol a ve jighjigh ga, nahan kwagh ne una vihi ivese ve. Kpa ka wea deen or u u vese nan la kwaghbo yô, ivese yen i taver shi ne hingir kôôsôô.” Wea soo u palegh ieren i den orgen a kwaghbo ga la yô, nôngo lu a ieren i wuese kwagh. Hanma shighe yô, wuese or u u vese nan la sha mimi. (Kol. 3:15) U er nahan yô, u tema a kpe u iyol, shi u lu ken mzough vea nomou shin kwase wou, shi u zua a averen a mba ve den mbagenev kwaghbo ve zuan a mi la.
DONDO TINDI U VESEN LA
14, 15. Ka nyi i lu Tindi u Vesen la, man noov man kasev ka vea dondo un nahan i wase ve nena?
14 U soo wer i eren a we sha ue shi i naan we icivir je ka ashe tugh ga. Ka a wa mbamhen man mbamnenge ou ikyo nahan i doo u kpishi. Kpa i lu nahan u ungwa or kaa ér, “U kuam, me kua u” vee? Alaghga ashighe agen se kav er i hii ve or er nahan yô. Nahan kpa, Bibilo gema kaa ér: ‘De kaan wer: Me er a na er a er a mo nahan, me or or shon iyev, ga.’ (Anz. 24:29) Jighilii yô, Yesu tese gbenda u hemban doon cii u sôron ayôôso a vesen. I fa tindi ne tsembelee je yô, ashighe agen ka i yila un Tindi u Vesen. A kaa ér: “Er i lu ne pe ior ve̱ eren a ven la, ne kpaa eren nen a ve di nahan kpaa.” (Luka 6:31) Yesu lu kaan ér, doo u se eren a ior er se soo ser ve eren a vese la, se de eren a ve dang sha ci u ve er a vese dang yum ga. Kwagh ne tese ér gba u nom shin kwase nana er kwagh u nan ver ishima u zuan a mi ken ivese i nan la ve nana zua a mi ye.
15 Aluer noov man kasev mba wan mbamnenge mba or u ve vese nan la ikyo yô, vea fatyô u taver ivese ve. Nom ugen shin tar u South Africa kaa ér: “Se nôngo
se dondo Tindi u Vesen la ken uma wase. Mimi yô, ashighe agen ka se gba anyiman, kpa se nôngo kpoghuloo se dondo Tindi u Vesen la sha u eren a hanma wase sha ue man sha icivir.”16. Ka nyi i doo u nom shin kwase nana er a ikyar u nan ga?
16 De pasen mbagenev mbamyen mba ikyar u shin zeren teren aeren a na a a vihi u ishima la ga, a lu sha asenge tsô kpaa ga. Umbur wer ivese ka gesa u i lu gban sha u a fa or u nan hembe taver iyol shin nan hembe ngoron shin nan hembe fan u kaan orgen akaa la ga. Mimi yô, se cii se yina, man ashighe agen ka se vihi mbagenev ishima ker. Kpa ityôkyaa i môm ngi i nom shin kwase nana lam a ikyar u nan côu côu shin nana hee nan, shin u hemban vihin je yô, nana daa nan shin nana ta nan sambe ga.
17. Noov vea dondo Tindi u Vesen la nena?
17 Shin er sha ajiir agen i nengen nomso mba ve gbidi kasev vev shin ve tswamen ve la ér mba ior mba ageev nahan kpa, Bibilo kaa ér: ‘Or u nan nyoon ishima fefa ga yô, nan hemba or u ageegh; u nan ker iyol i nan tsaha kpaa, nan hemba or u a ngohol gar sha utya yô.’ (Anz. 16:32) Gba u or a lu a shin ishima tsung ve nana fatyô u kôron iyol i nan tsaha er Yesu Kristu, or u hemban sha won cii, u yange lu shin tar la nahan ye. Or u nan lamen a kwase u nan côu côu shin nan gbidi un yô, nan ngu or u ikyoo ga, shi nana vihi ikyar i nan vea Yehova. Orpasalmi Davidi, u lu orageegh shi cian kwagh ga la je kpa yange kaa ér: “Nyoon nen ishima, kpa de eren nen isholibo ga; hen nen kwagh ken asema a en sha ugambe enev; lu nen ving.”
“HAA NEN DOOSHIMA IYOL”
18. Gba hange hange u noov man kasev vea za hemen u tesen dooshima sha ci u nyi?
18 Ôr 1 Mbakorinte 13:
19, 20. (a) Noov man kasev vea er nan ve vea lu kangenaa shi a saan ve iyolo? (b) Ka nyi se lu timen ken ngeren u dondon nee?
19 Mimi yô, gba u noov man kasev vea lu a dooshima shi vea eren kwagh a ikyar ve sha mimi, shi vea nôngo kwagh kpoghuloo ve, ivese ve ia doo ye. Shighe u mbamzeyol ve lu ken ivese yô, doo u noov man kasev vea ker u paven ga, kpa vea kange ishima ér vea hemba lun kôôsôô cii. Er Yehova man nomou shin kwase wou ve doo u ishima tsung yô, dooshima la a mgbegha u u sôron mbamzeyol ou mba ken ivese, sha ci u “dooshima been mayange ga.”
20 Ken “ashighe a ican” ne, hemba taver cii u noov man kasev lun kangenaa ken msaanyol. (2 Tim. 3:1) Kpa sha iwasen i Yehova yô, vea fatyô. Nahan cii kpa, gba u noov man kasev vea kôr iyol tsaha sha er vea palegh idya ken tar u idya i dumbur ker ne yô. Ngeren u dondon ne una time sha kwagh u noov man kasev vea er ve vea er idya ga yô.
^ par. 12 Er i doo u noov man kasev vea nôngon u kuren mbamzeyol vev nahan kpa, Bibilo na nom shin kwase u ikyar u nan a er idya yô ian i paven ivaa gayô den nan a kwaghbo. (Mat. 19:9) Nenge ngeren u ken Awake! u Agusutu 8, 1995, u a lu a itinekwagh ér “The Bible’s Viewpoint: Adultery