ʻOku tau fiemaʻu kotoa ʻa e paʻangá ke fakatau mai ʻa e ngaahi meʻa ʻoku fiemaʻu ʻe hotau ngaahi fāmilí. (Palōveepi 30:8) Ko e moʻoni, “ko e paʻanga ko e maluʻanga.” (Koheleti 7:12) ʻI he tuʻunga ko e ongo meʻa mali, ʻe faingataʻa nai ke talanoa fekauʻaki mo e paʻangá, kae ʻoua ʻe ʻai ʻa e paʻangá ke ne fakatupunga ha ngaahi palopalema ʻi hoʻomo nofo malí. (ʻEfesō 4:32) ʻOku totonu ki ha ongo meʻa mali ke na fefalalaʻaki mo ngāue fakataha ʻi he taimi ʻokú na fili ai ki he founga ke fakamole ki ai ʻena paʻangá.

MEʻA ʻOKU LEAʻAKI ʻE HE TOHI TAPÚ: “Ko hai ia ʻiate kimoutolu ʻokú ne loto ke langa ha taua te ne taʻetomuʻa tangutu hifo ʻo fikaʻi ʻa e fakamolé ke sio pe ʻokú ne maʻu ha meʻa feʻunga ke fakakakatoʻaki ia?” (Luke 14:28) ʻOku mātuʻaki mahuʻinga ke mo palani fakataha ki he founga te mo ngāueʻaki ki ai hoʻomo paʻangá. (ʻĒmosi 3:3) Fakapapauʻi ʻa e meʻa ʻokú mo fiemaʻu ke fakatau maí pehē ki he lahi ʻo e paʻanga te mo lava ʻo fakamole ki aí. (Palōveepi 31:16) Neongo ʻokú mo maʻu ʻa e paʻanga ke fakatau mai ha ngaahi meʻa, ʻoku ʻikai ʻuhinga ia ʻoku totonu ke mo fakatau mai ʻa e ngaahi meʻa ko iá. Feinga ke fakaʻehiʻehi mei he fakamoʻuá. Ngāueʻaki pē ʻa e paʻanga ʻokú mo maʻú.—Palōveepi 21:5; 22:7.

MEʻA ʻE LAVA KE KE FAÍ:

• Kapau ʻoku kei toe pē hoʻomo paʻangá ʻi he aʻu ki he fakaʻosinga ʻo e māhiná, mo talanoa fakataha ki he founga te mo ngāueʻaki ki aí

• Kapau ʻoku ʻi ai ha nounou fakapaʻanga, fai ha ngaahi palani papau ke fakasiʻisiʻi ai hoʻomo ngaahi fakamolé. Ko e fakatātaá, ʻe lava pē ke mo ngaohi hoʻomo meʻakaí kae ʻikai ko e ʻalu ki he falekaí

MEʻA ʻOKU LEAʻAKI ʻE HE TOHI TAPÚ: “Tokangaʻi ʻa e meʻa kotoa pē ʻi he faitotonu, ʻo ʻikai ngata pē ʻi he vakai mai ʻa Sihová, kae pehē foki ʻi he vakai mai ʻa e tangatá.” (2 Kolinitō 8:21) Hoko ʻo faitotonu ki ho hoá fekauʻaki mo e lahi ʻo e paʻanga ʻokú ke maʻú mo e lahi hoʻo fakamolé.

Talanoa maʻu pē mo ho hoá ʻi he taimi ʻokú ke fai ai ha ngaahi fili mahuʻinga fekauʻaki mo haʻo ngaahi meʻa fakapaʻanga. (Palōveepi 13:10) Ko e fetalanoaʻaki ʻo fekauʻaki mo e paʻangá ʻe tokoni ia ke tauhi maʻu ʻa e melinó ʻi hoʻomo nofo malí. ʻOua te ke vakai ki hoʻo paʻanga hū maí ko hoʻo paʻanga, ka ko e paʻanga ʻa e fāmilí.—1 Tīmote 5:8.

MEʻA ʻE LAVA KE KE FAÍ:

• Mo felotoi ki he lahi ʻo e paʻanga ʻe lava ke mo taki taha fakamole ki ai pea ʻe ʻikai leva fuʻu fiemaʻu ke ke toe ʻeke ʻa e fakamole ho hoá

• ʻOua ʻe tatali ke toki hoko ha palopalema pea toki talanoa ai fekauʻaki mo e paʻangá