KI HE ONGO MEʻA MALÍ
4: Fakamolemole
KO HONO ʻUHINGÁ
Ke fakamolemolé ʻoku ʻuhingá ko hoʻo tuku ange ha ʻita mo ha ongoʻi mamahi pē. Ko e fakamolemolé ʻoku ʻikai fiemaʻu ia ke ke fakasiʻia ʻa e halá pe fakangalingali naʻe ʻikai ʻaupito ke hoko ia.
TEFITOʻI MOʻONI FAKATOHITAPU: “Hokohoko atu ʻa e fekātakiʻaki mo e fefakamolemoleʻaki loto-lelei neongo ai pē ʻo kapau ʻoku ʻi ai ha taha ʻokú ne maʻu ha ʻuhinga ke lāunga ai fekauʻaki mo ha taha.”—Kolose 3:13.
“ʻI hoʻo ʻofa ʻi ha taha, ʻokú ke sio fakalaka atu ʻi he taʻehaohaoa ʻa e tokotaha ko iá pea ʻi hono kehé sio ki he tokotaha ʻokú ne feinga ke hoko ki aí.”—Aaron.
ʻUHINGA ʻOKU MAHUʻINGA AÍ
Kapau ʻokú ke tukulotoʻi ʻa e ʻitá, ʻe lava ke uesia fakaesino mo fakaeongo ai koe—ʻe lava foki ke ke maumauʻi ai hoʻo nofo malí.
“ʻI he taimi ʻe taha naʻe kole fakamolemole mai hoku husepānití ki haʻane fakalotomamahiʻi lahi au. Naʻe faingataʻa ke u fakamolemoleʻi ia. Naʻe faai atu pē ʻo u fakamolemoleʻi ia, ka naʻá ku fakaʻiseʻisa ʻi he ʻikai ke u fai vave ange iá. Naʻá ku fakamafasiaʻi ai homa vahaʻangataé.”—Julia.
MEʻA ʻE LAVA KE KE FAÍ
SIVISIVIʻI KOE
Ko e taimi hoko te ke loto-mamahi ai ʻi ha meʻa naʻe leaʻaki pe fai ʻe ho hoá, ʻeke hifo:
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‘ʻOku ou mamahingofua?’
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‘ʻOku fuʻu mafatukituki ʻa e fakatupu ʻitá ʻo u fiemaʻu ai ha kole fakamolemole, pe ʻe lava ke u tukunoaʻi pē ia?’
TALANOA MO HO HOÁ
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Ko e hā hono faʻa fuoloa kiate kitaua ke fefakamolemoleʻaki aí?
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Ko e hā ʻe lava ke ta fai ke vave ange ai ʻeta fefakamolemoleʻakí?
FOKOTUʻU
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ʻI he taimi ʻoku fakaʻitaʻi ai koé, ʻoua ʻe tukuakiʻi maʻu pē ho hoá.
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Feinga ke fakamolemoleʻi ʻa e ngaahi tōʻonga ʻa ho hoá, ʻo manatuʻi “ko e kotoa ʻo kitautolú ʻoku tau tūkia ʻo tā-tuʻo-lahi.”—Sēmisi 3:2.
“ʻOku faingofua ke fefakamolemoleʻaki kapau ʻokú ma fakatou hala, ka ʻoku faingataʻa ange ʻi he taimi ʻoku fehālaaki pē ai ha toko tahá. Ko hono tali ʻa e kole fakamolemolé pea fakamolemolé ʻoku fiemaʻu ki ai ʻa e anga-fakatōkilalo moʻoni.”—Kimberly.
TEFITOʻI MOʻONI FAKATOHITAPU: “Fakavave ke fakaleleiʻi ʻa e ngaahi meʻá.”—Mātiu 5:25.
Kapau ʻokú ke tukulotoʻi ʻa e ʻitá, ʻe lava ke uesia fakaesino mo fakaeongo ai koe—ʻe lava foki ke ke maumauʻi ai hoʻo nofo malí