MUBWINI, kukomezya bana mulimo muyumu. Pele kutapa lulayo ciindi nokwayandika kucita boobo cipa buyo kuti mulimo wiindile kuyuma. Ino nkaambo nzi? Nkaambo ikuti kakunyina lulayo (1) bana balazumanana kufwubaala, calo ciminya bazyali, alimwi (2) bazyali balacinca-cinca mbobapa lulayo, calo cinyonganya bana.

Kulubazu lumwi, lulayo lupegwa caluyando lulakonzya kuyiisya mbwayelede kuyeeya mwana alimwi ambwayelede kulilemeka. Alimwi lulabagwasya bana kulimvwa kukwabililwa nobayaabukomena. Pele nkuli nkomukonzya kujana busolozi bugwasya mukulaya bana banu?

Balembi bamagazini eeyi, Bakamboni ba Jehova, basyoma kuti Bbaibbele, mbubonya mbolyaamba, ‘lilagwasya mukuyiisya, mukusinsa, mukululamika zintu.’ (2 Timoteyo 3:16) Bbaibbele talili bbuku limuyiisya buyo mbomukonzya kuba muzyali; njiisyo zili mumo zipa busolozi bugwasya kumikwasyi. Amulange-lange zikozyanyo.

BBAIBBELE LYAAMBA KUTI: “Bufwubafwuba bulaangidwe mumoyo wamwana.”—Tusimpi 22:15.

Nokuba kuti bana balakonzya kucita zintu camaano alimwi akuba aluzyalo, pele alimwi balakonzya kucita zintu zyabufwubafwuba. Aboobo, bana bayandika kulaigwa. (Tusimpi 13:24) Kuzyiba kaambo aaka kamasimpe ciyoomugwasya kuzuzikizya mukuli wanu wakuba muzyali.

BBAIBBELE LYAAMBA KUTI: “Utaleki pe kumulaya mwana.”—Tusimpi 23:13.

Tamweelede kuyoowa kuti kubalaya munzila iili kabotu bana banu kuyoobanyonyoona naa kupa kuti kamutamvwani kumbele. Ikuti mwabalaya munzila yaluyando, bayooluzumina cakulibombya lulayo oolo, ibube mbobayooyandika baakukomena.—Bahebrayo 12:11.

BBAIBBELE LYAAMBA KUTI: “Kufwumbwa cintu muntu ncasyanga, ncencico eeco ncayootebula.”—Bagalatiya 6:7.

 Bazyali balayanda kukwabilila bana babo alimwi cili kabotu kucita oobo. Nokuba boobo, cilayandika kutaciindizya. Tacili kabotu kubakwabilila bana banu akaambo kakulubizya kwabo, naa kubavwuninina ikuti bayi naa muntu umwi mupati wamwaambila kulubizya nkobacita. Muciindi caboobo, mutababoni kuti mbasinkondonyoko. Kwiinda mukucita boobo, muyiisya bana banu kulemeka bweendelezi—kubikkilizya abweendelezi bwanu.—Bakolose 3:20.

BBAIBBELE LYAAMBA KUTI: “Mwana uulekwa buyo ulajazya banyina nsoni.”—Tusimpi 29:15.

Nokuba kuti bazyali tabeelede kuba bakali, pele alimwi tabeelede kubalendekezya bana babo. Bbuku litegwa The Price of Privilege lyaamba kuti: “Bana ibajisi bazyali babalendekezya tabalimvwi kuti bapati muŋanda mbabeelede kweendelezya.” Ikuti kamutabelesyi nguzu nzyomujisi, mwanaanu ulakonzya kuyeeya kuti nguuyelede kweendelezya. Cakutadooneka, ulasala zintu munzila iitali kabotu calo cikonzya kumupa kuusa walo alimwi andinywe.—Tusimpi 17:25; 29:21.

BBAIBBELE LYAAMBA KUTI: ‘Mwaalumi uyookakatila kumukaintu wakwe, eelyo aaba bobilo bayooba mubili omwe.’—Matayo 19:5.

Kweelana ancolyaamba Bbaibbele, mwaalumi amukaintu beelede kukwatana kabatanazyala bana alimwi beelede kuzumanana kuba antoomwe bana bakomena akuzwa aŋanda. (Matayo 19:5, 6) Munzila iili boobo cikwati ncecisaanguna mubuumi bwanu mpoonya kuba muzyali kuboola mubusena bwabili. Pele, ikuti tiimwacita oobo, mwanaanu ‘unooyeeya kuti ulayandika kapati kwiinda bwini mbwabede.’ (Baroma 12:3) Mukwasyi uubikkila maano kapati kumwana upa kuti cikwati cibe muntenda.

Kutegwa mucikonzye kuba muzyali mubotu, lulayo lwanu lweelede kweendelana anjiisyo eezyi zitobela.

Kamuba aluyando. “Mutanoobanyemyi bana banu, kutegwa batatyompwi.”—Bakolose 3:21.

Mutanoocinci-cinci. “Kwaamba kwanu kuti ‘Inzya’ akube inzya, akuti ‘Peepe’ akube peepe.”—Matayo 5:37.

Kamunyoneka. “Ndiyookululamika cansaizi.”—Jeremiya 30:11. *