Nkaambo nzi Banamukwasyi Ncobatacilemekani?

AMULIZYE

NKAAMBO NZI BANAMUKWASYI NCOBAYANDIKA KULEMEKANA?

Kulemekana mumukwasyi kupa kuti kakuli luumuno.

Bbuku litegwa The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work lyaamba kuti, ikuti banabukwetene kabalemekana, balatalika kumvwana kapati “kutali buyo muzintu zipati pele amubukkale boonse bwabuzuba-abuzuba.”
Buvwuntauzi butondezya kuti bana ibakaiya kulemeka bamwi balalikwaya, balaba acilongwe cibotu abazyali babo alimwi balacesya-cesya mapenzi aamumizeezo.

MBUTI MBOMUKONZYA KUTONDEZYA KUTI MULABALEMEKA BAMWI MUMUKWASYI WANU?

Amupange cakusala antoomwe abanamukwasyi. Cakusaanguna, nobazyali amube masimpe kuti boonse balamvwisya ncocaamba “kulemekana.” Cabili, amulembe nzyobeelede kunoocita banamukwasyi alimwi anzyobateelede kunoocita. Catatu, amucibandike amukwasyi eeco ncomwasala kutegwa aumwi azyibe mbwayelede kutondezya bulemu.

“Makanze aabankutwe masimpe apa kuzwidilila.”—Tusimpi 21:5.

Amube cikozyanyo cibotu. Amuyeeye mbomubeendelezya banamukwasyi. Sena mubikkila kapati maano kujatikizya kulezya kwabo, mulabafwubaazya akaambo kamizeezo yabo, mutulanga buyo twaambo ntobaamba naa mulabanjila mukanwa ciindi nobaambaula?

Nzila iigwasya: Kuti kamubalemeka bakaintu banu alimwi abana banu, abalo ciyoobaubila kumulemeka.

“Mumakani aakulemekana, amube ndinywe nomuli kumbele kulemeka bamwi.” —Baroma 12:10.

Amutondezye bulemu nokuba kuti tamuzuminani mutwaambo. Ciindi nomwaamba mbomulimvwa mutanikwaambi majwi aatyompwa mbuli aakuti “nywebo lyoonse mbomucita oobu” naa kuti “kunyina nomuyoocita boobu.” Majwi aali boobu alakonzya kumunyemya munamukwasyi alimwi akupa kuti mazwanga aindile buya.

“Kuvwiila kabotu kulalesya bukali, pele majwi mabi alanyemya.”—Tusimpi 15:1.

MBUTI BAKAMBONI BA JEHOVA MBOBAKULWAIZYA KULEMEKANA MUMIKWASYI?

Bakamboni ba Jehova bakulwaizya banamukwasyi kulemekana. Bunji bwaziindi makani aaya alabikkilizyigwa muzyakumwaya zyesu mbuli mumabbuku, muzibalo, mabroshuwa alimwi amumavidiyo kakunyina kubbadela.

KULI BANABUKWETENE: Zibalo zyakuti Lugwasyo Kumukwasyi zilakonzya kubagwasya banabukwetene . . .

kuba muswiilizi mubotu
kuleka cilengwa cakutaambauzyanya
kuleka kukazyanya

(Amubone cibeela cakuti “Lugwasyo Kumukwasyi” a jw.org)

KUBAZYALI: Zibalo zyakuti Lugwasyo Kumukwasyi zilakonzya kubagwasya bazyali kuyiisya bana babo . . .

kumvwida
kubeleka milimo yaaŋanda
kwaamba kuti “ndalomba” alimwi akuti “ndalumba”

(Amubone cibalo cakuti “Kukomezya Bana” alimwi acakuti “Kukomezya Bakubusi” a jw.org)

Amubone cibalo cakuti, “Bube Buli 6 Mbobeelede Kwiiya Bana,” mu Sinsimuka! No. 2, 2019 alimwi acakuti “Nzila Izili 12 Zikonzya Kupa Kuti Mukwasyi Uzwidilile” mu Sinsimuka! No. 2, 2018, peeji 8-11 a jw.org)

KUBAKUBUSI: Cibeela cakuti Bakubusi a jw.org cilijisi zibalo, mavidiyo alimwi amapepa aakulembela izikonzya kugwasya bakubusi . . .

kumvwana abazyali babo alimwi abanabokwabo
kubandika cabulemu abazyali babo kujatikizya milawo njobababikkila
kusyomwa abazyali

(Amubone cibeela cakuti “Bakubusi” a jw.org)

Kubelesya webbusaiti ya jw.org takubbadelesyegwi pe. Kunyina mali aayandika nokuba kulilembya buya naa makani aajatikizya ndinywe ngomuyoolombwa kutegwa muzumizyigwe kwiibelesya.

SINSIMUKA!