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Konyera Abandi Kugumira Okwetuntura

Konyera Abandi Kugumira Okwetuntura

“Inywena mube n’entekereza emu, mugirranganege embabazi, mugonzangane nk’ab’oruganda, muganyiranganege, kandi mube abebundaazi.”​—1 PET. 3:8, NW.

EKIZINA 107 Ekyokurorraho Kya Ruhanga eky’Okugonza

EBITURAYEGA *

1. Nitusobora tuta kuhondera ekyokurorraho ekya Isiitwe ow’okugonza?

YAHWE n’atugonza muno. (Yoh 3:16) Naitwe nitugonza kuhondera ekyokurorraho ekya Isiitwe ow’okugonza. Nahabweki tulengaho kwoleka ‘embabazi, kugonza okw’aboruganda, hamu n’okuganyira’ hali abo boona abetuntwire baitu kukira muno “abo abomunju yokwikiriza.” (1 Pet. 3:8; Bag. 6:10) Ab’oruganda n’abanyaanya itwe obubahikwaho ebintu ebibaletera kwetuntura tubakonyera.

2. Nitwija kubazaaho ki omu kicweka kinu?

2 Abo boona abeteranizaaho ekitebe kya Yahwe baraba omu nyikara ezigumire. (Mar. 10:29, 30) Kandi nk’oku tuliyo nitwirra haihi n’empero y’ensi enu ebizibu nabyo nibisobora kweyongerra kimu. Nitusobora tuta kukonyerangana? Leka turole ebitusobora kwegera ha kyokurorraho kya Loti, Yobu hamu na Naomi. Kandi nitwija n’okubazaaho bimu ha bizibu ab’oruganda n’abanyaanya itwe barukurabamu omu kasumi kanu hamu n’omulingo tusobora kubakonyeramu.

BA MUNTU ARUKUGUMISIRIZA

3. Kusigikirra ha 2 Petero 2:7, 8, Loti akakora ncwamu ki ey’etahikire kandi biki ebyarugiremu?

3 Loti akakora encwamu ey’etahikire obuyacwiremu kwikara n’abantu ba Sodomu abaali basihani muno. (Soma 2 Petero 2:7, 8.) Nobukiraaba ngu ekiikaro eki kyali kikurakuraine muno, Loti obuyafurukiireyo akatunga obulemeezi bwingi. (Kub. 13:8-13; 14:12) Nikisobora kuba ngu mukazi we akaba n’agonza muno orubuga runu rundi abantu ab’omu rubuga runu kyamuletera kujeemera Yahwe. Ekyarugiremu omukazi onu nauwe akafa, Ruhanga obuyahwerekiriize ekiikaro kinu n’akozesa omurro n’ekibbiriti. N’abahara ba Loti ababiri bakakwatwaho muno habwokuba baali bajumbiirwe abasaija ba Sodomu. Loti akafeerwa enju ye, itungo lye, kandi ekirukukirayo kusaasa, akaferwa na mukazi we. (Kub. 19:12-14, 17, 26) N’obukiraaba ngu binu bikabaho, Yahwe akaleka kugumisiriza Loti? Nangwa.

Habw’embabazi ze enyingi, Yahwe akatuma bamalaika kugenda kujuna Loti n’eka ye (Rora akacweka 4)

4. Yahwe akagumisiriza ata Loti? (Rora ekisisani ekya ha kyesweko.)

4 N’obukiraaba ngu Loti akacwamu kwikara omu Sodomu, Yahwe akamwoleka embabazi yasindika bamalaika kumujuna hamu n’eka ye. Baitu omu kiikaro kya Loti kworobera bamalaika akaruga omu Sodomu aho naaho, uwe ‘akaikaraho’ rundi akezigaziga. Bamalaika ekibakozere, bakakwata omukono gwe, ogwa mukazi we hamu n’ey’abahara be nukwo babaiha omu rubuga. (Kub. 19:15, 16) Bamalaika bakamugambira ngu airuke agende omu nsozi. Baitu omu kiikaro ky’okworobera Yahwe, Loti akamusaba amwikirize agende omu rubuga orwali ruli haihi. (Kub. 19:17-20) Yahwe akamuhuliiriza n’okugumiisiriza kandi yamwikiriza agenda omu rubuga oru. Baitu hanyuma, Loti akatiina kandi y’acwamu kugenda omu nsozi nambere Yahwe akaba amugambiire kugenda ha kubanza. (Kub. 19:30) Mali Yahwe kakamugumiisiriza muno! Nitusobora tuta kuhondera ekyokurorraho kya Yahwe?

5-6. Kusigikira ha 1 Abasesalonika 5:14, nitusobora tuta kuhondera ekyokurorraho kya Yahwe?

5 Nka Loti, ow’oruganda rundi munyaanya itwe n’asobora kukora encwamu embi kandi zikamurugiramu ebizibu. Ekintu nk’eki kakuba kibaho, tusemeriire kwetwaza tuta? Nitusobora kwohebwa kumugambira ngu aliyo n’agesa ebiyasigire, kandi ago nigaba gali mananu. (Bag. 6:7) Baitu nabwo, haroho ekintu ekirukukira oburungi ekitusobora kukora. Kirungi kumukonyera nk’oku Yahwe yakonyire Loti. Kinu nitusobora kukikora tuta?

6 Yahwe akatuma bamalaika kuhabura Loti n’okumukonyera atahwerekerra n’orubuga rwa Sodomu. Omu mulingo nugwo gumu, naitwe tusemeriire kuhabura ow’oruganda ow’arukukora ekintu ekisobora kumurugiramu ebizibu. Kandi tutagarukira ha kumuhabura kwonka baitu tumukonyere n’omu miringo endi. N’obwaralemwa kwanguha kuta omu nkora obuhabuzi bwa Baibuli obutumuhaire, tusemeriire kumugumisiriza. Leka naitwe tube nka bamalaika babiri Yahwe abayasindikire. Omu kiikaro ky’okumwecwaho, tusemeriire kugumizaamu nitumukonyera omu bigambo n’omu bikorwa. (1 Yoh. 3:18) Nikisobora kutwetagisa kumukwata ha mukono tukamukonyera kuhondera obuhabuzi oburungi obw’ahairwe.​—Soma 1 Abasesalonika 5:14.

7. Omulingo Yahwe yatwaizemu Loti nigutwegesa ki?

7 Yahwe akaba n’asobora kuta omutima ha nsobi za Loti, baitu atakikole. Akakozesa omwoyo gwe kuterekereza Petero kuhandiikaho Loti nk’omuntu anyakuhikiriire. Kanikisemeza muno kukimanya ngu Yahwe tata omutima ha nsobi zaitu! (Zab. 130:3) Omulingo Yahwe yarozeremu ensobi za Loti nigutwegesa ki? Naitwe omutima obuturaguteka ha miringo emirungi ey’ab’oruganda n’abanyaanya itwe, nikiija kutwanguhira kubagumisiriza. Kandi eki nikisobora kubaletera kwikiriza tukabakonyera.

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8. Embabazi zituletera kukora ki?

8 Kwahukanaho na Loti, Yobu uwe atabonabone habw’encwamu ezitahikire eziyakozere. Baitu nauwe akahikwaho ebizibu by’amaani, akafeerwa itungo lye, ekitiinisa eky’akaba aine, kandi yarwara oburwaire obw’amaani. Ekirukukirayo kusaliza, uwe na mukazi we bakafeerwa abaana baabo boona. Ekindi, banywani be basatu bakamujunaana ebintu eby’akaba atakozere. Habwaki banywani ba Yobu banu abayefoire ngu baizire kumuhuumuza balemerwe kumwoleka embabazi? Batalengeho kwetegereza enyikara Yobu akaba narabamu. Ekyarugiremu, bakamwetegereza kubi kandi bayanguhiriza kumucwera omusango. Nitusobora tuta kwetantara kukora ensobi niyo emu? Kikuru muno kukiijuka ngu Yahwe nuwe wenka amanyiire kimu enyikara omuntu arukurabamu. Nahabweki omuntu obwaraaba nakusobororra ebizibu bye huliiriza kurungi. Otagarukira ha kuhuliiriza ebigambo bye byonka baitu lengaho n’okwetegereza obusaasi bwe. Eki nikyo kirakukonyera kwoleka embabazi zonyini hali ow’oruganda rundi munyaanya itwe ogu.

9. Embabazi niziija kutuletera kwetantara ki kandi habwaki?

9 Embabazi niziija kutuletera kwetantara kujanjaaza orugambo orurukukwata ha bizibu abandi barukurabamu. Omuntu ow’orugambo tayombeka ekitebe, baitu akiseesa. (Nfu. 20:19; Bar. 14:19) Omuntu nk’ogu tayoleka embabazi habwokuba eby’abaza tabanza kubitekerezaaho, kandi ebigambo bye nibisobora kuhutaliza kimu omuntu ow’aliyo nabonabona. (Nfu. 12:18; Bef. 4:31, 32) Mali kyakubaire kirungi turole emiringo emirungi omuntu eyaine kandi omutima tuguteke ha mulingo tusobora kumukonyera kuraba omu kizibu kye.

Huliiriza kurungi ow’oruganda n’obwatandika kubaza eby’atabandize kutekerezaaho kandi omuhuumuze omu kasumi akasemeriire (Rora akacweka 10-11) *

10. Ebigambo ebiri omu Yobu 6:2, 3 nibitwegesa ki?

10 Soma Yobu 6:2, 3Obwire obumu, Yobu nauwe akabaza ebigambo “byanguhiire” ekirukumanyisa ngu akabaza atabandize kutekereza. Obwire bukahika y’ayeyijukya ebimu ha bintu eby’akaba abalize. (Yob. 42:6) N’omu kasumi kanu, omuntu ow’aine ekizibu ky’amaani n’asobora kubaza ebintu ebyatarukumanyisa kandi ebyahika akeyijukya nk’oku Yobu y’akozere. Tusemeriire kwetwaza tuta kinu obukibaho? Omu kiikaro ky’okumucwera omusango, leka tumwoleke embabazi. Leka twijukege ngu kyali kitali kigendererwa kya Yahwe tuhikweho ebizibu n’okwetuntura ebiturukurabamu omu kasumi kanu. Nahabweki tikisemeriire kutuhuniriza omuheereza wa Yahwe obw’abaza ebigambo eby’atabandize kutekerezaaho. N’obwatubazaaho kubi rundi akabaza ebigambo ebitahikire hali Yahwe, titusemeriire kwanguhiriza kumubihirirwa rundi kumucwera omusango.​—Nfu. 19:11.

11. Abagurusi b’ekitebe nibasobora bata kuhondera ekyokurorraho kya Erihu obubarukuba nibahabura omuntu?

11 Obwire obumu, kyetagisa kuhabura rundi kuhana omuntu anyakwine ekizibu ky’amaani. (Bag. 6:1) Kinu abagurusi b’ekitebe nibasobora kukikora bata? Basemeriire kuhondera ekyokurorraho kya Erihu ayahuliriize Yobu kandi yamwoleka embabazi nyingi. (Yob. 33:6, 7) Erihu atakahabwire Yobu akabanza yayetegereza kurungi entekereza ye. Abagurusi bahondera ekyokurorraho kya Erihu obubabanza kuhuliiriza omuntu kurungi kandi bakalengaho kwetegereza enyikara ey’arumu. Obubakora bati, kyanguhira omuntu ou barukuhana kuhuliiriza n’okwetegereza obuhabuzi bwabo.

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12. Naomi akehurra ata, musaija we hamu n’abatabani be babiri obubafiire?

12 Naomi akaba mukazi mwesigwa kandi ayagonzaga Yahwe. Baitu musaija we hamu n’abatabani be babiri obubafiire, akagonza kuhindura ibara lye, omu kiikaro kya Naomi ayetwe “Mara,” ekirukumanyisa “Okusarra.” (Rus. 1:3, 5, 20, rora obugambo obuli hansi., 21) Baitu mukaamwana we arukwetwa Rusi akaikara nauwe omu bizibu bye byona. Rusi akakonyera Naomi kutunga ebyetaago bye kandi akamuhuumuza. Rusi akamugambira nk’oku akaba n’amugonza kandi yamugumya ngu akaba nagenda kumusagika.​—Rus. 1:16, 17.

13. Habwaki tusemeriire kusagika abaferiirwe abagonzebwa babo?

13 Ow’oruganda rundi munyaanya itwe obw’aferwa ow’ali nauwe omu buswere, tusemeriire kumusagika. Abantu abali omu buswere nibasobora kulengesanizibwa n’emiti ebiri enyakukuliire haihingana. Hanyuma y’emyaka emihama y’emiti enu etahiramungana. Nahabweki omuti gumu obugugwa, oguba gusigaireho gukwatwaho muno. Omu mulingo nugwo gumu, omuntu obw’aferwa omugonzebwa we, nauwe ayehurra kubi muno kumara akasumi kaingi. Munyaanya itwe arukwetwa Paula, * ayaferiirwe iba bwangu bwangu nagamba, ngu: “Obwomeezi bwange bwona bukahindukira kimu, kandi nkehurra mpwairemu muno amaani. Nkaba nferiirwe omunywani arukukira abandi boona. Iba nyowe namugambiraga buli kimu kyona. Yasemererwaga na nyowe kandi yansagikaga obunabaga nyine ebizibu. Yampuliirizaaga obunamugambiraga ebizibu byange. Obuyafiire kikasisana oti rundi bancwiremu ebicweka bibiri.”

Nitusobora tuta kusagika omuntu anyakuferiirwe omugonzebwa we? (Rora akacweka 14-15) *

14-15. Nitusobora tuta kuhuumuza omuntu anyakuferiirwe omugonzebwa we?

14 Nitusobora tuta kuhuumuza anyakuferiirwe omugonzebwa we? Ekintu eky’okubanza ekitusemeriire kukora nukwo kubaza nauwe n’obukiraaba ngu tusobora kutiina rundi kwehurra tutamanyire ekitusemeriire kumugambira. Munyaanya itwe Paula, ou tusangirwe tubalizeho nagamba ati: “Nkimanyire ngu omuntu obw’afa abantu bahurra basobiirwe. Batiina kubaza n’omuntu anyakuferiirwe habwokuba batekereza ngu nibasobora kubaza ekintu ekiramusaliza. Baitu kiba kibi muno abantu obubacwamu kuculeera.” Omuntu anyakuferiirwe aba atarukunihira ngu nitwija kumubaliza ebigambo eby’embaganiza muno. Paula nayongera nagamba ati: “Kyangarramuga amaani banywani bange obubangambiraga ngu, ‘Caali koboine n’okuferwa.’”

15 Ow’oruganda arukwetwa William, ay’aferiirwe mukazi we emyaka ey’enyuma nagamba ati: “Kinsemeza muno abantu abandi obubangambira ebintu ebirungi ebirukukwata hali mukazi wange, kinu kingumya ngu baamugonzaga kandi bamutekamuga ekitiinisa. Ekintu kinu kinkonyire muno kuguma. Ebigambo byabo bimpumuza muno habwokuba mukazi wange namugonzaga muno kandi akaba ali kicweka ky’obwomeezi bwange.” Omufakati arukwetwa Bianca nasoborra ati: “Kimpumuza muno abandi obubasaba hamu na nyowe kandi tukasomera hamu ekyahandiikirwe kimu rundi bibiri. Kinkonyera muno obubabazaho kurungi iba nyowe kandi n’obubampuliiriza obumba nimubazaaho.”

16. (a) Kiki ekitusemeriire kwikara nitukorra abo abaaferiirwe abagonzebwa babo? (b) Kusigikirra ha Yakobo 1:27, twine bujunanizibwa ki?

16 Nk’oku Rusi yaikaire na Naomi omu bizibu bye byona, naitwe tusemeriire kwikara nitusagika abaaferirwe abagonzebwa baabo. Munyaanya itwe Paula, ou tasangirwe tubalizeeho nagamba ati: “Aho n’aho iba nyowe obuyamazire kufa, abantu baingi bakanyirukiirra kandi ba mpumuza. Obwire obubwagenzere niburabaho, bakagaruka ha mirimo yabo nyowe banyebwa. Kandi kunu obwomeezi bwange bwali buhindukiire kimu. Kiba kirungi muno abandi obubakyetegereza ngu omuntu anyakuferiirwe abanakyayetaaga obusagiki bwabo omu meezi hamu n’emyaka ey’ehonderaho.” Tusemeriire kwijuka ngu abantu bahukana, abamu kibanguhira kuguma bakagumizaamu n’obwomeezi bwabo. Baitu abandi tikibanguhira, nk’ekyokurorraho abamu obubakora ekintu kyona ekibakoraga n’omugonzebwa wabo kibaletera kumwijuka n’okuganya muno. Kandi twijuke ngu abantu baganya omu miringo erukwahukana. Nahabweki Yahwe atuhaire omugisa n’obujunanizibwa obw’okubahuumuza.​—Soma Yakobo 1:27.

17. Habwaki kikuru kusagika abo abaalekerwe abagonzebwa babo?

17 Abaswerangaine baingi basalirwa muno kandi betuntura muno ou bali nauwe omu buswere obw’abalekaho. Omukazi arukwetwa Joyce, iba akamuleka habwokuba akaba atungire omukazi ondi. Joyce nagamba ati: “Obusaasi obunatungire habw’okugaitururwa na iba nyowe nibukira obusaasi obunakutungire kuba y’afiire. Obuyakutungire butandwa akafa rundi akaitwa oburwaire, nakukimanyire ngu tebaire ncwamu ye. Baitu iba nyowe kundekaho ekaba ncwamu ye, kandi ekintu kinu kikandetera kwehurra nswaire muno.”

18. Nitusobora tuta kukonyera abo abalekerweho abagonzebwa babo?

18 Obutukorra abantu abalekerweho abagonzebwa babo ebintu ebirungi, tubooleka nk’oku nitubagonza. Nk’oku baba basigaire bonka, baba nibetaaga muno abanywani abarungi. (Nfu. 17:17) N’osobora ota kwoleka ngu oli munywani wabo? N’osobora kumuraliza omu ka yaawe mukalya hamu ekiihuro. Kandi n’osobora kutunga obwire mukakora hamu ebintu ebirukusemeza rundi mukagenda hamu omu buheereza. Ekintu ekindi, n’osobora kumweta akaba nainywe omu kuramya okw’eka. Obw’orakora ebintu binu, noija kusemeza muno Yahwe habwokuba “aikara haihi nabo abomutima ogucwekere” kandi nuwe “omuramuzi owabafakati.”​—Zab. 34:18; 68:5.

19. Ekyahandiikirwe ekiri omu 1 Petero 3:8 nikitutererra kukora ki?

19 Omu kasumi akatali kahara, Obukama bwa Ruhanga nibwija kulema ensi kandi “obujune bwa kara buliba bwebere.” Leka tulindirre n’ekihika akasumi nambere ‘ebigambo bya kara bitalijukwa, kunu tibiritaha omu mutima.’ (Is. 65:16, 17) Baitu omu kasumi kanu, leka tusagike ab’oruganda n’abanyaanya itwe boona kandi tubooleke okugonza omu bigambo n’omu bikorwa byaitu.​—Soma 1 Petero 3:8.

EKIZINA 111 Ebituletera Okusemererwa

^ kac. 5 Loti, Yobu, hamu na Naomi baali baheereza ba Yahwe abesigwa, baitu nabo bakaraba omu bizibu eby’amaani ebyabaletiire kwetuntura muno. Omu kicweka kinu nitugenda kwega omulingo ebyokurorraho by’abo bisobora kutukonyera. Kandi nitwija n’okurora ensonga habwaki kikuru kugumiisiriza, kwoleka embabazi hamu n’okubaza omu mulingo ogurukuhuumuza obuturukuba nitukonyera ab’oruganda n’abanyaanya itwe abaine ebizibu eby’amaani.

^ kac. 13 Amabara omu kicweka kinu gahindwirwemu.

^ kac. 57 KUSOBORRA EBISISANI: Ow’oruganda abihirwe kandi n’abaza eby’atabandize kutekerezaaho baitu omugurusi w’ekitebe n’amuhuliiriza n’okugumisiriza. Hanyuma, y’ow’oruganda ow’abaire aine ekiniga kutekaana, omu mulingo ogw’embabazi omugurusi amuhabura.

^ kac. 59 KUSOBORRA EBISISANI: Abaswerangaine abakyali bato bali n’ow’oruganda ayakaruga kuferwa mukazi we. Nibabazaaho ebintu ebirungi ebirukukwata ha mukazi we.