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Kindness​—Na Character Wey De Show for Wetin We De Talk and Do

Kindness​—Na Character Wey De Show for Wetin We De Talk and Do

KINDNESS de make person mind come down! When we know say person care about us, e de make us glad. When people do good things for us e de sweet us. Now, how we fit get this good character wey be kindness?

Person wey dey kind or get good heart de really care about other people and show-am for the things wey e de talk and do. Person wey dey kind no de only greet or treat people well, but e de help people because e love them and e understand how them de feel. The number one thing be say, kindness na part of the fruit wey holy spirit de produce. And Bible encourage all true Christians to get this fine character. (Gal. 5:22, 23) We must get this fine character. So, make we talk about how Jehovah and Jesus don show this character before, and how we fit copy their example.

JEHOVAH DE DO GOOD TO ALL OF US

No be only good people Jehovah de do good for. E get good heart, e de care for all of us, even for “wicked people and people wey they no de talk thank you.” (Luke 6:35) For example, Jehovah “de make e sun shine for both wicked people and good people, and e de make rain fall for both righteous people and people wey no dey righteous.” (Matt. 5:45) Even people wey they no accept say na Jehovah make them still de benefit from the things wey Jehovah de do for us. All this things wey Jehovah de give us, de make us enjoy life and dey happy. And this people de enjoy-am too.

One correct example to show say Jehovah get good heart na wetin e do for Adam and Eve. Small time after Adam and Eve sin, they “sew leaves from fig tree together and make something wey they tie for waist to cover their nakedness.” But Jehovah know say they go need better cloth so that they go fit survive outside the garden of Eden. Because Jehovah don curse the ground, and na so-so “chuku-chuku” e go de produce. So Jehovah show them kindness and e do wetin they need. E sew “long cloth from skins” for them.​—Gen. 3:7, 17, 18, 21.

Even though Jehovah de do good for “both wicked people and good people,” but na e faithful servants e want do good for pass. For example, for the time of prophet Zechariah, one angel feel bad as e see say the work for the temple wey them de build again for Jerusalem don stop. Jehovah listen to the thing wey the angel talk, and e answer with “kind word wey de make person mind come down.” (Zech. 1:12, 13) Jehovah still do the same thing to prophet Elijah. E get one time wey life tire the prophet sotey e talk say make Jehovah do-am so that e go die. Jehovah listen to the way Elijah de feel, and e send one angel to make Elijah strong. Jehovah still tell the prophet say e no dey alone. After Elijah receive that kind word and the help wey e need, e dey strong and do the work wey God say make e do. (1 Ki. 19:1-18) Inside all servants of God, who be the number one person wey e don show kindness like Jehovah?

JESUS​—NA THE BEST EXAMPLE OF KINDNESS

When Jesus dey this earth, everybody know say e dey kind and de care for people. E no de try to force other people to do wetin e want, and e no dey harsh at all. E de feel people pain, na e make e talk say: “Come meet me, all of wuna wey de struggle and wey carry heavy load. I go make wuna get rest of mind. . . . Because my yoke easy to carry.” (Matt. 11:28-30) People follow Jesus everywhere wey e go, because e dey kind. And Jesus “feel pity for them,” feed them, cure sick people, and teach them “many things” about e Father.​—Mark 6:34; Matt. 14:14; 15:32-38.

Jesus really show say e dey kind. E show say e understand and feel for people for the way e treat them. No matter how e dey busy reach, all the people wey come, e welcome them with “love.” (Luke 9:10, 11) For example, When one woman wey e no dey clean according to the law come touch Jesus cloth, Jesus no vex for the woman at all. Jesus understand the woman condition say e de fear, e no suppose come touch e cloth because of the condition wey e dey. But e come touch Jesus because e get faith say Jesus go fit cure the sickness. (Lev. 15:25-28) Jesus feel pity for this woman wey e don suffer from flow of blood for 12 years, and e tell the woman say: “Daughter, your faith don make you well. Go house and no worry yourself again, and well from your bad sickness.” (Mark 5:25-34) This one show-am clear say, Jesus na correct example of kindness!

PERSON WEY DEY KIND DE DO GOOD FOR PEOPLE

For the examples wey we don talk about, we see say person wey really dey kind de show-am for the things wey e de do. Jesus talk why e really dey important for the example wey e give about the Samaritan man. That time, Samaritan people and Jew people na serious enemy. But for Jesus example, the Samaritan man feel pity for the Jew wey thief catch for road, they beat the man, collect e things, and e remain small make the man die, they come leave-am for road. When the Samaritan man de pass and see the man, e stop and help the man because e dey kind. E treat the man wound and take the man go guest house. The Samaritan man pay the person wey get the guest house to take care of the Jew, and even talk say e go pay any other money wey the person spend when e come back.​—Luke 10:29-37.

Kindness no be only to do something to help people. We fit still show say we dey kind when we think well before we talk, so that wetin we talk go encourage other people. Bible talk say: “Na the worry wey dey for person heart de make-am feel bad.” But e still talk say: “Na good word de make the heart glad.” (Prov. 12:25) We fit make other people happy when we show them kindness and goodness to encourage them and make them feel good. * Our kind word go show say we love and care for them. And this one go encourage them and make-am easy for them to cope with the problems wey them de face for this world.​—Prov. 16:24.

HOW TO GET THIS CHARACTER

Kindness na wetin all of us fit try to get because God make us “like e self.” (Gen. 1:27) For example, Julius wey be Roman army officer take apostle Paul go Rome so that e no go escape. And e “treat Paul well as e allow make e go visit e friends and enjoy their care” for Sidon. (Acts 27:3) Some time after, when the ship wey Paul de use travel fall inside water, the people of Malta show Paul and other people wey dey with Paul “special kindness.” This people even make fire for them so that they go dey warm. (Acts 28:1, 2) This people really try well-well. But to show say we really dey kind, we must help people everytime no be just sometimes.

To make Jehovah happy, we must try to dey kind everytime and make-am part of our life. Na e make Jehovah tell us say make we “wear” good-heart like cloth. (Col. 3:12) The truth be say, e no dey easy to make this good character part of us. E fit be say na because we de shame, and this one fit make us no get mind to show-am, or e fit be say people de suffer us, or person do us bad sotey we no like to care for people again even as we don try to comot the thing from our heart. No matter wetin e be, we fit fight-am and win if we trust God’s holy spirit, and imitate the way Jehovah de show kindness.​—1 Cor. 2:12.

Wetin fit help us know the area wey we need to improve the way we de show kindness for our life? Make we ask ourself this questions: ‘I de listen to person with love? I de quick notice say person need help? I fit remember the last time wey I help person wey no be my family member or my tight friend?’ Then make we plan-am say, we go try to know more about the people wey them dey around us, especially Christian brothers and sisters for congregation. If we do like this, we go fit really know their condition and their needs. Another thing be say, make we de try to show kindness for the same way wey we go like make other people show-am to us when we dey their condition. (Matt. 7:12) True-true, if we de try to dey kind and beg Jehovah to help us, e go help us and bless us.​—Luke 11:13.

IF WE DEY KIND TO PEOPLE, E DE TOUCH THEIR HEART

When apostle Paul talk the things wey show say e be minister of God, e mention “kindness.” (2 Cor. 6:3-6) People like Paul because of the way e de care for them. E show-am for the things wey e do for them and e kind word. (Acts 28:30, 31) Like Paul, we fit make people like the truth because of the way we de behave to them. If we de show kindness to everybody, even to people wey they no de treat us well or de suffer us, this one fit touch them and make them change their heart to like us. (Rom. 12:20) As time de go, they fit even accept the truth.

For Paradise wey de come, many people wey God go resurrect go happy well-well as other people de show them kindness. For some of them, e fit be say na the first time wey person go show them kindness be that. This one go really move them to want show kindness to other people too. That time, God no go allow anybody wey no gree show kindness and help other people, to stay for Paradise. Na only the people wey dey kind and de show love to others, God go allow make they stay for Paradise. (Ps. 37:9-11) That time, people go really dey safe and peace go dey everywhere! But before that time come, how we fit gain now as we de show kindness?

WHEN WE DEY KIND NA WE DE GAIN

Bible talk say: “Person wey get good-heart de benefit e self.” (Prov. 11:17) People de like to dey around person wey dey kind, and them still de show the person kindness. Jesus talk say: “The way wuna de measure for people, na so they go measure for wuna.” (Luke 6:38) So, e dey easy for person wey dey kind to get good friends and remain with them as friends.

Apostle Paul encourage the congregation for Ephesus say make them “dey kind to each other, de pity for each other, de forgive each other from [their] heart.” (Eph. 4:32) Congregation go benefit when all Christians de show concern for each other, dey kind and dey ready to help each other. We no go ever dey harsh to our brothers and sisters, condemn them or laugh them to bring them down. Instead of us to gossip them, make we try to use our tongue encourage them and help them. (Prov. 12:18) This one go make the whole congregation serve Jehovah well with joy.

Yes, kindness na character wey we de show for the things wey we de talk and do. When we dey kind or get good heart, we de show say we de imitate our God Jehovah wey get this better character. (Eph. 5:1) E de make our congregation dey strong, and e de make other people come serve Jehovah. So, make we try, so that they go know us as people wey de always show kindness!

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