Nge-13 kaFebruwari 2023 ebingoMvulo, iCenters for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) yaseUnited States ikhuphe ingxelo ngezigulo abanazo abantwana abana-13 ukuya ku-19 baseUnited States. Ithe phantse ihafu yabantwana abaseHigh school basoloko bengonwabanga ibe abanalo nethemba.

 UGqr. Kathleen Ethier, ojongene nendlela abantwana abakhula nabenza ngayo esikolweni kwiCDC uthi: “Kule minyaka iyi-10 idlulileyo, izigulo zendlela umntu acinga naziva ngayo ziye zambi kakhulu kubantu abasebatsha. Kodwa ezi zigulo ziye zambi kakhulu kubantwana abangamantombi kuba baninzi abacinga ngokuzibulala, abacinga ngeendlela zokuyenza loo nto, nabade bazame.”

 Le ngxelo ithi:

•   Phantse ikota yabantwana abaneminyaka eyi-13 ukuya kweyi-19, baye banyanzelwa ukuba balale nomntu bengafuni. UGqirha Ethier uthi: “Kubantwana abangamantombi abayi-10 obaziyo, kuyenzeka ukuba omnye okanye ngaphezulu sekhe waphathwa kakubi ngesondo. Iyothusa kakhulu loo nto.”

•   Umntana omnye kwabathathu secinge kaninzi ngokuzibulala.

•   Abathathu kwabahlanu basoloko bekhathazekile ibe baphelelwe lithemba.

 Zibuhlungu kakhulu ezi zinto. Abantwana bafanele bonwabe. Yintoni enokubanceda bakwazi ukunyamezela nokumelana nestres abanaso kule mihla? Ithini iBhayibhile?

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